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“Where healing, humor, and high standards collide—because dating after 40 deserves a better conversation.”
I Don’t Want To Share
Recovering from heartbreak (and my birthday), I’m taking you along for the ride as I reflect on my first polyamorous relationship. Sharing won’t be part of my future—but it’s definitely…
Cancel The Brazilian Wax
You never know how your day will turn out. Today? It was a tough one in the land of romance—let’s just say it didn’t go as planned. Join me as…
How it started….
“Hey, I’m Tracy—a twice-divorced, 45-year-old chasing that big, magical love. Life hasn’t always been easy or pretty, but every experience has shaped who I am today. I’ve learned from my…


Flirt in After Forty is where I share the unfiltered highs and lows of modern dating as a grown-ass woman. It’s part therapy, part storytelling, and part “can you believe this happened?”
Each episode is a mix of real-life dating stories, reflections on love, the occasional advice no one asked for, and a lot of emotional honesty—with just enough sass to keep it fun. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or re-downloading the apps for the fourth time this year… welcome. You belong here.
Because dating isn’t just about finding the one—it’s about finding yourself again, too.