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“Where healing, humor, and high standards collide—because dating after 40 deserves a better conversation.”
I Hate Valentines Day
I’ve hated Valentine’s Day since 6th grade—funny how one bad experience can shape the next 35 years. I’m here to share my anti-Valentine’s story… and an unbelievable tale of coincidence…
Here Comes The Manther
If a woman’s a cougar, then a man’s a manther… and here we are! How do we feel about hooking up with people much younger than us? I want to…
I Kissed A Girl
If a woman’s a cougar, then a man’s a manther… and here we are! How do we feel about hooking up with people much younger than us? I want to…


Flirt in After Forty is where I share the unfiltered highs and lows of modern dating as a grown-ass woman. It’s part therapy, part storytelling, and part “can you believe this happened?”
Each episode is a mix of real-life dating stories, reflections on love, the occasional advice no one asked for, and a lot of emotional honesty—with just enough sass to keep it fun. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or re-downloading the apps for the fourth time this year… welcome. You belong here.
Because dating isn’t just about finding the one—it’s about finding yourself again, too.