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“Where healing, humor, and high standards collide—because dating after 40 deserves a better conversation.”
The Good, the Weird, and the Reset Button
Things started off great — good vibes, good convo, and maybe a spark. But then… yeah, it took a turn. I’m sharing a story about a date that looked promising…
From Sleepovers to Silence
This week, I’m sharing the story of a man who went from cozy cuddles to total radio silence in 72 hours flat. One minute we’re having deep convos and sharing…
Smut Goblin Phase?
Ever gone through a phase where your give-a-damn is broken and your standards are… on sabbatical? Welcome to what I lovingly call the Smut Goblin Phase — a glorious, chaotic…


Flirt in After Forty is where I share the unfiltered highs and lows of modern dating as a grown-ass woman. It’s part therapy, part storytelling, and part “can you believe this happened?”
Each episode is a mix of real-life dating stories, reflections on love, the occasional advice no one asked for, and a lot of emotional honesty—with just enough sass to keep it fun. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or re-downloading the apps for the fourth time this year… welcome. You belong here.
Because dating isn’t just about finding the one—it’s about finding yourself again, too.