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“Where healing, humor, and high standards collide—because dating after 40 deserves a better conversation.”
It’s A F*ck Yes Or A No
When it comes to love, life, and everything in between—half-hearted isn’t enough. In this episode, I’m diving into what it really means to be all in on someone, something, or…
The One Who Started It All (And Might Not Even Know)
Dear Ryan Parker, Some people leave a mark you never fully shake. In this episode, I’m sharing the story of my very first kiss—sweet, and unforgettable—and the unexpected weight that…
Hope, With A Side Of Skepticism
After months (okay, years) of swiping, ghosting, and questionable choices in restaurants and men, something unexpected happened: a flicker of hope. In this episode, I’m talking about what it means…


Flirt in After Forty is where I share the unfiltered highs and lows of modern dating as a grown-ass woman. It’s part therapy, part storytelling, and part “can you believe this happened?”
Each episode is a mix of real-life dating stories, reflections on love, the occasional advice no one asked for, and a lot of emotional honesty—with just enough sass to keep it fun. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or re-downloading the apps for the fourth time this year… welcome. You belong here.
Because dating isn’t just about finding the one—it’s about finding yourself again, too.