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“Where healing, humor, and high standards collide—because dating after 40 deserves a better conversation.”
Structural Damage & Other Dating Perks
Quick poll: Ever broken a bed? No? Don’t worry—you might start reconsidering after this episode. Let’s just say my latest “work experience” took an unexpected turn… Tune in for a…
Out Of The Blue: When The Past Calls
The past few weeks, I’ve shared a personal and difficult story. And just when I thought I was closing that chapter, the universe threw me a curveball—an old flame (or…
Sex Party Goes Wrong (Part 2)
This week, we’re diving back in—Part 2 of the sex party saga. Turns out, being left at the party wasn’t even the worst part. Nope. Try being stalked and disrespected.…


Flirt in After Forty is where I share the unfiltered highs and lows of modern dating as a grown-ass woman. It’s part therapy, part storytelling, and part “can you believe this happened?”
Each episode is a mix of real-life dating stories, reflections on love, the occasional advice no one asked for, and a lot of emotional honesty—with just enough sass to keep it fun. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or re-downloading the apps for the fourth time this year… welcome. You belong here.
Because dating isn’t just about finding the one—it’s about finding yourself again, too.