The Podcast
Flirtin After Forty
Real conversations about dating after 40, emotional growth, red flags, green flags, motherhood, and rebuilding confidence. No fluff. No pretending. Just honest, funny, sometimes messy truth.
This is where we tell the truth.

What We’re talking about right now
Is he my person… or am I mine?
In one week, everything shifted. Season two launched. J-Man listened. And somehow… we’re cautiously trying again.
This episode is about the kind of growth you don’t always see day-to-day —
how much you’ve evolved, healed, and changed over time.
It’s about losing yourself in relationships…
learning to fill your own bucket first…
and asking the big question:
Do we need “our person”…
or do we need to be our own?
Plus: a 14-year-old’s breakup take, Valentine’s Day with teenagers, and yes — comparing women to Mercedes. Because dating after 40 is never boring
More Episodes
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Is he my person…or am I mine?
Dating after 40 gets real when you’re asking: is he my person… or am I mine? A messy, honest update on growth, love, and learning to choose yourself.
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Back To Me
Season two begins with a hard but honest choice. I’m sharing why I ended things with J-Man, what it means to trust your gut, and how “back to me” became the most important place to start again.
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The Weight Of Paying Attention
This week’s episode is heavier. I’m sharing why I stepped back, how current events hit close to home, and what happens when burnout, resentment, and intuition collide in a relationship that’s already stretched thin.
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The Unfiltered Version
If something in an episode hit home, this is where we go deeper.
Dating updates. Behind-the-scenes reflections.
The messy in-between that doesn’t always make it to the mic.
